Both Teens and Adults differnet views?

Okay, So I have read both questions about " teen girls and such" and I did answer the one.





When anyone says teens are all bad or adults all bad, how can that be when you can't compare everyone by one persons actions.





Yes I do have a baby , but i'm a good parent..

Both Teens and Adults differnet views?
because socitey thinks in the ways that if they see one bad teenager then they all must act the same way and they same thing can apply to adults. its not really like that though there are some great people out there its all based on how people see other people in society.. teen are apparently like a bad generation in general we can do no right in adults eyes except the thing is adults dont open thier eyes to see that there are older people out there who can be just as bad or worse. it doesnt make sense but you can never change peoples mind once they have an opinion they stick with it. all you can do is prove the adluts that are in your life that you are a good person and as far as good or bad parenting goes its all about maturity level i see some horrible adults who are parents and i see some horrible teens who are parents but i also know some rele good teen parents and so exceptional adult parents. it reallly all depends on the person
Reply:[quote]When anyone says teens are all bad or adults all bad, how can that be when you can't compare everyone by one persons actions.[/quote]





Take tabloids... When they get a story they blow it up and give it to the world to read it. It's the same. One person says something and all of a sudden EVERYONE of that age group is the same or has done the same.





And the worst thing of all is that THE MAJORITY of the people out there just believe everything they read in tabloids.
Reply:Well, of course not all teens are bad parents. They are just young. And unless they are very very disciplined they are going to want to hang out with their friends, go to the mall, go to dances, and try to finish school which means MOM or someone is going to be raising their baby for them a lot. Does not mean they are bad parents, just teenagers and irresponsible. Which is part of being a teen, learning the ropes, learning how to manage time, having fun, and being a parent really bites when you are 16 or 17 and your friends want you to hang out. I have seen teen girls with their babies at the mall. They smile but their eyes aren't happy. They KNOW that their young days are over and they have way too much responsibility for a kid. And that hurts, no proms, no sleep overs, no one wants you to come just for fun and the boys won't even look at you. You have a baby. If you are lucky you live with your parents at home. You get to look forword to cranky teething babies, dirty diapers and a life that is pretty darned lonely for a teen. But you do have your baby, sweet, loving, never cross, or crabby...oh, that isn't real life is it?
Reply:because people make dumb generalizations.


a teen can be a good parent and an adult can be a good parent.


also, a teen can be a bad parent and an adult could be a bad parent. people just associate teenagers as the rebels and adults as the mature ones. sometimes i see teens who act more maturely than adults do...
Reply:well said i think it is bad how as humans we judge people by one persons actions but everyone does it with out realising it wheather you see a kid missbeahving in town and decide i dont want kids because they will just misbehave all the time its just what we do but i try my best not to do it.
Reply:most teens are bad parents because they are young and dont know how to deal with themselves but the same is true with adults teens just get a harder rap i know someone who is a good teen mom and shes totally happy
Reply:because some people allow themselves to see the negatives only , then generalize a group with the characteristic