Wat do teens think of fellow teens getting pregnant at a young age(unda 15)?

im asking this Q here cause you all seem to mostly be teens.so whats your personal opinion do you think of it as morally wrong slu**y or what plese tell thnx

Wat do teens think of fellow teens getting pregnant at a young age(unda 15)?
lol. you're gonna get a lot of hate from this question...


honestly, i don't agree with the decisions these young girls are making, but i dont consider them to be slutty or anything. if anything, these girls just need our support and people to not make them feel bad for their choices.
Reply:I'm 17 %26amp; a mother of a six month old. i would be the first to say, it is harder than any teen could possibly grasp. dont get me wrong, i love my son %26amp; wouldnt change a thing, but i know im too young. i'mhomeschooled so i can take care of my son, so i'll never go to prom, i'll never walk across the stage when i graduate. there are alot of things i'll never experience. i wish every teen could understand the difficulties of having a child so young.
Reply:i think it's morraly wrong and slutty. unless they were raped, because they couldnt help that. but yes, morals are something that should not just be tossed around like a football! having sex does have consequenses, but we teens dont seem to realize that! it does frustrate me.
Reply:People judge WAY too quickly. I am a wonderful TEEN mom. People who judge BEFORE they even know teen parents really irritate me! Have you met EVERY teen parent out there? No. Have you personally experienced being a teen parent? Obviously not. Do not judge unless you know what we go through. I think it is morally wrong that people judge EVERY teen parent before they even get to know EVERY teen parent out there. Nobody is in any place to judge!





Abortion is the easy way out! I didn't get an abortion, obviously, and am very proud of my decision. Teens who get an abortion are irresponsible and can't deal with the consequences of having sex, so why do they have sex.. I don't know. Those kind of teens irritate me too! I, and MANY other teens, are responsible and taking responsibility for our actions.





Edit: KK- How on earth can you sit there and blame our PARENTS for it!!!??? For one- My parents were home.. I LIED to my parents and said my boyfriends parents were home when they were NOT home. I didn't think I could get pregnant the first time I had sex, but I did. My parents had NOTHING to do with me getting pregnant. Do NOT sit there and say that!!!





As you can see this is a sensitive topic for me, especially when KK says we should be locked away.. taken from our parents.. blames it on our parents.. whatever. Until you personally have experienced our every day lives do not sit there and say that ****!
Reply:i don't think pregnancy itself is wrong. i think sex before marriage is wrong. pregnancy at a young age though does make life difficult but it's a new life. babies are precious gifts and should be brought into the best situations possible, and young teenagers aren't old enough to provide good enviroments for their babies.
Reply:I think that teens getting pregnant young is VERY irresponsible. The teens themselves aren't even old enough to have a job and take care of themselves... let alone another human being who is dependant on them 24/7. Little babies are a lot of work and require a lot of attention; much more than a teen parent can give them. Teens who are having sex need to learn how to use birth control or protection ( AND USE IT PROPERLY!!) and they also need to realize that by having sex... it means it could result in the birth of a child.
Reply:I personally have dealt with this, a past gf of mine was pregnant and I have to say that teen pregnancy isn't bad in itself, but both the mother and the father need to stay together for each other and for the child (or children).





I say that anyone can have sex, if they know what it is, and are prepared to face the consequences of what they are doing.





as for my past gf, she aborted without telling me and left me T_T
Reply:I think it IS wrong, but they made the decision to get into that kind of stuff, so they brought it on themselves. I don't support purposly doing that, but if one of my friends ends up in that situation ( which, unfortunatly, more then one has ) I support them and don't ditch them, like some other people have.
Reply:i think its scary!!


i woulndt do anything stupid like tht though
Reply:Our society is obsessed with instant gratification with little to no consideration of the negative repercussions.





Sex feels amazing, but I personally think it is a little overrated...





People say that teens like to drink because they know it is illegal and use usually declines after reaching 21. I think sex might be at least somewhat analagous... we are taught that it should not be done until marriage (not so much now), but kids get interested and want to try it, hormones are raging, and it happens. We want to experience the taboo and find out for ourselves what it is all about. And again, it feels good.





An excuse that we are just animals and it is natural is not giving credit to our evolution (or in the image of God) as a species... we do not just jump each other on our way to class (well, some might), meaning that as a species, we have learned to control our desires.





With all that said, I am not a teen, I am 23. However, it has not been that long since I was in high school. I find it hard to condone an under 15 yr old girl getting pregnant. However, not too long ago, it was common for young teens to get married and have kids. Though, times have definitely changed. I do not believe it is "morally wrong," the problem comes with financial responsibility and knowing what is in your best interest... you have to be responsible for your decisions.





Many girls on this board have attested that they were ready and are in the same relationship with the same guy... I see nothing wrong with that.
Reply:Stupid Dumb and even more stupid
Reply:i think it's dumb, irresponsible, and not good for them in the long term
Reply:i think its absolutly horrible. Im 15 and 17 weeks pregnant and my entire school calls me a slut. the thing is i have been dating the baby's father for about a year. and i am still dating him. and when i told him i was pregnant he gave me a promise ring and told me he would be there through the good times and the bad. and to me that isnt really a slut. and they dont know me and dont know about my life. i think its horrible for people to judge teens. yes i got the "birds and bees" talk. and yes i was in health class for a year and learned about STDs and birth control. it was a mistake and i think people who judge teens should put themselves in the shoes of a pregnant teen. its none of their business anyway.
Reply:It's deffinetly not something I would do. But accidents happen, and I deffinetly have respect for the teens that can actually take care of their kids, go to school, and hold a part time job. You Go Girls!
Reply:i am 13(girl) and I think if it is going to happen then it is going to happen there is nothing you can do. One of my best friends is dew any time and i will be there for her. I think they can do what ever they want to i will always be her friend no matter what happens through what ever.
Reply:ok well i dont get why all these adults think that its ok to tell teens how to raise their children... yes some ppl get pregnant by mistake.. i was 17 when i got pregnant.. i was on birth control.. and i planned on keeping my baby.. i lost the baby when i was 8 weeks pregnant.. i think that if u get pregnant deal with it.. and if not then give the baby up so that it actually has a chance to have a happy life.. but 15 year olds getting pregnant thats bad.. yes 17 is not far behind but atleast u can get a job and have ur lisence and bring ur own baby to dr appointments..
Reply:i think having sex before marriage, even in 20s!, is wrong. God instructed us to wait. so im waiting.





as far as other teens having sex//getting pregnant, i just see it as a choice. a child is a blessing, yes. but he//she can be a blessing after getting marriage. if the teen thinks they are mature enough to handle sex, then they need to be mature enough to protect themselves %26amp; mature enough to handle the consequences if they dont.
Reply:I probably think your gonna hit trouble soon, All the teen moms come on around this time.





I myself am a teenage mom, I am eighteen years old and have three wonderful children aged 5, 4 and 2. I am also pregnant with my fourth. BUT before people start bashing and give thumbs down you should read the rest. I am married with the same father of all my children, I'm a SAHM and my husband is a lawyer so we are financially stable in every way. Some people think that just because I am a teenage mother they think they can bash me down talking crap asking if I have ever had a life or travelled around the world like you other "normal" teenage girls. I have done everything in the world that I wanted to do even though I'm a teenage mom so some of you just seriously need to lay off and asking these kind of questions.





EVEN IF WE ARE TEENAGE PARENTS, WE DO HAVE FEELINGS. WE ARE NOT EMOTIONLESS.
Reply:Personally its not a situation i would put myself in but theres nothing i can do to stop the people who are. Its a personal issue that i think people make a lot of debate about but it doesn't bother me really. I have several friends and a cousin who are in the situation where they either are teen mothers or are pregnant at the age of 15. Teens are just as capable of being good parents as anyone else they just have to take responsibility for their actions and deal with it. I support the people i know who are in that situation and wish the best to them, but teen pregnancy doesn't bother me
Reply:It really is sad I think people should wait till there older and know what there getting to and I know its going to happen no matter what but it would make teenage life a lot easier and better to enjoy if they were more careful
Reply:i dont think its slutty ( bieng a teen mom is not the correct definition of slutty)





and its up the girl whether or not she wants to get pregnant.





as long as she knows the consequences ( regardless of age)
Reply:I think it is sick that someone so young is having sex. At that age you are not physically or emotionally prepared for all the stuff and possible consequences that come with sex. Way to young!!! Where are the parents when their kids are out screwing around. The parents should have their parental rights taken away, and the kids should be locked away.
Reply:I don't judge, I just feel sorry for them. Regardless of their chosen course of action (keep, abort, put up for adoption/foster care), the situation puts a lot of physical and/or emotional strain on them, can result in problems with their schooling and financial situation, and often creates serious social tension. Even if it is morally wrong or slu**y, I'd call the pain they go through punishment enough. And you can't generalize. Some get pregnant after being pressured by their partner, or only do it once and are just unlucky. I don't see how anyone can call that slu**y.
Reply:Not S****y, Just unprofessional %26amp; Irresponsible, Sure They Might Still Succeed; But The Chances Of That Happen ( With Statistics) Are Really Slim!!
Reply:i think there dum.. man at this age people should party and have fun...getting pregnant is really stupid...to all those girls with kids...why didnt you think...are u stupid...omg stupid b**ches...
Reply:i'm 27 and i think teens should be more educated on forms of birth control. most people can't call pregnant teens s!uts because they have done the same thing and just didn't get pregnant. of course if think it's morally wrong to have sex before you're married, but i didn't wait, but i also didn't get pregnant, either way i can't judge. what i can judge is teens being careless about sex, getting pregnant, and murdering an innocent baby because of their mistakes. i think all pregnant teens that think they're mature enough to have sex should be mature enough to accept the responsibility and have the baby and if they don't want it, then give it up for adoption.
Reply:i was walking through a grocery store


with my younger sister holding my hand.


When i was there, i got many rude and


well "your a whore" type of looks. there


were two boys just laughing. at that point


i felt terrible for every teenage mom. I


think if the mother has owned up to her


mistakes and is taking full responsibility


for her child and is fighting for child support,


she is doing what is right. But if they are


pawning there baby off to there mother i do


believe that it wrong.
Reply:I think that you and other[s] should STOP asking these type of questions there pointless and ANNOYING.





Thumbs down me! I dont give a *****.
Reply:I just think it's sad.... and I wonder what there parents were doing
Reply:i think if you are under 15, there is no reason to be pregnant, unless you are raped.


there is no reason of too why you should be under 15 and pregnant, if you think you are ready to be pregnant at 14-15 then be mature enough to wait till around 16-17.
Reply:Its whatever.


its not my problem


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i jus wanted to see how many thumbs down i could get within the 1st few minutes of answering this : ]





I actually think they should just not open their legs if they are not willing to accept the effects of them having sex.