For teens (sry, just need some help form ppl my age)?

i think they should have a section for teens only cause yall adults sometimes dont get what were saying and we get all depressed or whatever ya know. nothing agains yall, but its like im asking my mom (freakkkky)...





anyway, my grandma just died and my mom is taking a long time to get over it. like she bursts into tears at any given time, its weird. how to i cope.





and my friend talks about how stupid i am all the time, how i don't have any fashion, looks horrible without my glasses, have too much bust, have big lips, whatever. how should i respond





oh and for teen guys: what are the 3 top things you find attractive in a girl

For teens (sry, just need some help form ppl my age)?
your friends probably jealous. you probably look better without your glasse and shes intimidated, so shes like uhhhh you look bad. just ignore her, or come up with a way to playfully fight back. and if that doesnt work, then ditch her; real friends dont talk bad about other friends.
Reply:Sorry about your grandma, but she'll always be in your memory.





I'm not a guy, but I'm bisexual so I'll answer your 3 top things question.





1. brains


No one likes a girl that's stupid, even though guys try to say that stupid girls are easy, no one wants a girl that's stupid to be with them.





2.confidence


If you have confidence in yourself and you believe you are beautiful, others will too.





3.body


To be brutally honest, the body is important to men. Breasts are just an extra bonus. (TRUST me.) So don't be insecure about your chest, but don't be too reveling either. No sluts No buts.





Oh, and I think glasses are sexy. ;)
Reply:Wow I'm the first person to answer..is there no teens out there???? lol.


1st. I'm sorry about your grandma. There is really nothing to do about your mom...just imagine how you would feel =[. all you can do is like wait for her to get over it cuz she will eventually. Don't wait too long cuz it can lead to depression. If she doesn't get over it in a few months maybe you should take her to like a phycologist or something those people will know what to do and make her feel better.





2nd: Girl don't pay attention to your friend. I think she's just jelous. Maybe even stop talking to her. I had two friends like that and they never said anything good about me it was always something bad. But then I realized I was stupid for taking their **** when I was better than them anyway I just wasn't mean enough to tell them all their flaws!! lol. So I stopped talking to them and kept talking to my other friends who actually support me. So don't tlk to that girl she'll only keep your self-esteem low. you'll be better without her anyway trust me. I know it can be hard [those two girls i was talking about were like my family!!] but its better in the end.
Reply:You Know what don't listen to other people they're wrong about you even though I don't know you everyone deep down has a good heart and everyone is beautiful in every single way remember don't let words bring you down. I'm sorry your grandma died If It was your mom's mom It will probaly take A while They were probaly pretty close wern't they? I mean Mother and Daughter. Cope by saying Mom, It's ok god put her on this earth for a reason, to have a great family a great daughter and graddaughter to live a Happy life and did she?


and say Mom You and I will see her again someday just think she's happier being with her creater just as happy as she was with us.











I am just saying that from my point of veiw I don't know how her life was lived but I'm sure It wasn't bad E-mail me at anytime if you have any more questions or concerns:squirrlygirl2121@yahoo.com bye
Reply:about your grandmother: im sorry about your grandmother, i just recently lost a good friend of mine in a car accident, she was only 13, well i did that a lot to, i ould burst out crying or just not talk to anyone. when i did that my family and friends just held me, some even cried with me. for some reason i feel better when im crying and someone who loves me is there, they dont have to say anything just them being there helps.





and about your "friend": She is deff not your friend if she makes comments to you like that. if she was rele your friend she wouldnt care about how you dress or look. i say dump her as a friend or juss tell her how you feel.
Reply:I'm sorry about your grandma, it's rough to lose a family member. Your mom just lost her mom, so try and see it from her side. Be as supportive as possible, but also have a place where you can go to get away from the depressing situation for awhile (ie a friend's house, your back yard, etc).





You need to tell your friends that they're making you feel like crap. No one, especially your 'friends' should make you think there is something wrong with yourself. Another option is to laugh it off and poke back at them. That's what I did when I transitioned into middle school and it worked out great. Don't let it get you down, and talk to your friends.





Good luck with your mom and friends.