Teens!!!!! Whats under your.........?

BED right now??? My husband yells about finding a little candy wrapper in my 15 year old sons room but I keep telling him its NORMAL! Im trying to show him thru this question that its completely normal for a teens room to be a little messy!!!! He gets all bent out of shape over little things and I keep telling him all kids do it so please help me out by answering this for me! Thanks sooooo much!

Teens!!!!! Whats under your.........?
my stepdad was the same way now i live on my own and am married and there is still juck under my bed tell him that his energy can be used for future battles that might actually matter this is stupid and will cause the son in question to care less and listen less so you will have a real problem when it comes to important things and if the only thing your husband can find to get mad about is this you have a damn good son he should be praised my sisters were doing pot at his age and me and him get yelled at for an imperfect room kinda made me want to give my step dad something to ***** about dont let your son be pushed to that
Reply:well i got a pullout bed under mine..but when it wasnt there..it was messy adn mym mom would make me clean it every so often...but not like every day.
Reply:haha the husband


no offense but you must talk this over with him


yelling at him will seriously make him feel guilty if something isnt clean


i dont even know whats under my bed!
Reply:at least ur husband is not finding a condom, girls clothes,or a pack of cigs or a vodka bottle in the room
Reply:I have alot of stuff under my bed, from clothes to books to pictures. Its normal for teen's room to be messy. It just that I don't find enough time in my day to really worry about it. I rather be on the phone, on the internet, playing playstation, I'm at work or just out with friends. There's no time to clean our rooms. We have our whole lives to worry about that type of stuff so we don't bother with it right now.
Reply:nothing. im a virgo. perfection.
Reply:I'm 14 and under my bed there are shoes, but no candy wrappers lol My mom told me if she finds a candy wrapper under my bed that she will make me clean everyday. Plus I have a trash can to throw away papers and garbage. Other then that your husband is a clean freak. From what I know many teenagers do have candy wrappers under there beds and papers and this is normal for a teen. Only I have learned never to have trash on my floor or else I will get in trouble and some of my privileges will be taken away. I think being neat and clean is nice, but then it takes the fun away of being a teenager. Your husband reminds me allot of my mom. I'm actually scared of my mom when it comes to cleaning. She does not like any trash or wrappers on the floor. I think that's why our house is so clean and I know for a fact that she too is a clean freak. I think your husband should take a chill pill because anyways at one point your son will clean his room. Only my mom has a hard time getting it through her head. She always says she is preparing us for when we have a house. Only I believe that she is taking away the fun of being a teenager and the fun of acting like one too. Well Good Luck on your husband and your son.


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Reply:im not kidding on this...books (physics, calculus, spanish...school stuff), dress shoes, a breifcase?!, thats about it, but i have to admit, i obsses about organization...most of the time
Reply:ha ha im 17 and i have things all over my room expecally candy lol
Reply:i have a ***** candy store under my bed
Reply:A sock, the bag from the school clothes I bought her, one pencil, and a small bottle of perfume with an airheads wrapper stuck to it.
Reply:HOney first of all ,if your husband is "yelling @ YOU because of this,What the hell is his Problem ????!!!! You are an equal partner !!He can't take any part in helping here???And yes it IS normal to find MANY things in your teens room!! IF that is all you have to worry about finding you better COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS THAT IT IS'NT DOPE,NEEDLES ETC!!!! I would be happy to find candy wrappers any day!!!!!
Reply:OMG my daughter's room looks like a tornado just went through it. Tell your husband to chill and shut the door to the bedroom.


Kids are definitely messy.


They have the rest of their lives to keep stuff cleaned up.


I think he is worrying about nothing and that it will cause him and his son to have a bad relationship. It's not worth fighting over.


If I want my daughter to clean her room, I bribe her...with money of course...but for the most part -- it's a sty. She knows where everything is. Her clothes she wears are clean each day (the dirty stuf finds its way into the laundry) and her school work gets done and she gets good grades. Why make a big deal out of being messy?
Reply:well im 19 and under my bed im affriad to look , somthing might bite me, no seriously . i have garbage from fastfoods, probebly a cat, who knows what else
Reply:There is my carpet under my bed. Well my parents are complete clean freaks so we vacuum dust and do everything else everyday my brother and I have to clean under everything and when we're gone my stepmom cleans our rooms.WOW i have a real clean room I see all my friends rooms and they're all messy i just want to clean them because i'm not used to it
Reply:Um.





You're husband is a clean freak.
Reply:my kids have clothes, shoes, some toys, and I always, always, always find candy wrappers. Not that they put that all there though, we don't know who put it there, the mystery continues.....hmmmmmm. Tell Hubby he needs to relax, it could be alot worse! Like dishes!
Reply:trash, newspapers,books,cups, shoes,paper, candy wrappers, my violin, more trash, actualy under my bed its overflowing of trash im a messy person
Reply:Iam 15 and there is a CRAP load of stuff under my bed. Candy wrappers, socks, clothes, game console controllers, wires, games, papers, school books, WAY TO MUCH TO PUT IN THIS. It is normal for a kid my age and other teens to get stuff under there bed. Just make sure they clean it like once a week....or atleast rearrange it?
Reply:I'm afraid to go in my sons bedroom.something might attack me and i'll never be found.
Reply:Well I'm a teen and I have a loft bed which is just the top part of a bunk bed. So I have a computer, a bookshelf and other junk under my bed
Reply:is your husband a neat freak? well anyway, i'm 13 and i used to have my journal, socks, papers, and various other crap under my bed. i just cleaned it out. and yes it is normal
Reply:i have a box of hot wheels, a condom, drawing paper...that's about it.





I'm 14 and my dad was like that.
Reply:Its very normal!!
Reply:I dont have anything under my bed. But thats because I am an organization freak and I have a housekeeper that comes and cleans. All teens are messy.
Reply:Ummm... At least they dont have magazines (ones you dont' want to see) under the bed...





But for a normal teen, there are candy wrappers everywhere, cloths on the floor, shoues in od places.. papers and books all over the desk and floor... cups and a plate or two by the computer... etc...





It sounds like a couple of wrappers under the bed or in the room is not a big thing... I'd say congradulate your son for actually not being a slob of a teenagers... If the room has been dusted in the last year and vacumed in the last six, it is a improvement over the norm...
Reply:sounds liek ur husband lieks everything clean. and if that is the way he feels then stay up to date and clean things more often. its not that big of a problem...i would be worrying about if my 15 year old son eats too much candy instead of seeing the candy wrapper under his bed. btw... whats under my bed is no ones buisness lol
Reply:shirts and my luggage set
Reply:Why is he even looking under the bed???? I'd say if he wants to find something more interesting then a stupid candy wrapper then look in the closet under or in the hamper... thats where my brother keeps all his nudy mags..... I find them every time I'm doing laundry.... or in his drawers..... but a candy wrapper... how pathetic.... poor kid.
Reply:r u kiddin my room is messy as hell and im around that age i hav more then a candy wrapper! its perfectly normal wen there older they will be more responsible and cleaner its a faze all teenagers go through
Reply:lets see:


a shoe i've been lookin for


some empty bottles


2 magazines


a ball


bunch of trash


a cd


a disposable camera


and a lot more junk





tell him to stop worrying so much. a kids room is allowed to be messy. it's the one place in the house that they should be able to keep however they want.